Dating in forty
Dating in forty
If you are a single woman over 40, you have a love history.
And when I saw it, and dealt with it, my life changed.
Clients come to me with these limiting ideas about dating, love and men, and it’s my job to help them turn things around.
Working with me, women transform the lies to create opportunities. I hope reviewing these lies opened your mind to new ways of looking at dating over 40.
Yours will too.) Here are your action steps: • Write your list of qualities, values, and behaviors that attract you and that you expect in a man with whom you spend time.
• Review your list and decide: does this man exist?
Take some advice from a gal who has been there, finally figured “the man-thing out,” got married at 47 and now enjoys a stellar relationship with the perfect man…for me. I mean, after all, if every man you meet is unworthy then there is no risk you’ll actually start dating or get in a relationship!
There are two things you can do that will immediately improve your experience with men: 1. Know what you want and must have, and make sure it’s the “Grownup You” doing the picking; not the 18-year-old who still expects all kinds of wacky things that no longer matter and wouldn’t make you happy anyway. Aren’t your “quirks” what you want men to love about you? • How does this belief impact your actions (or inaction), and how is that affecting your outcomes? Yep, that’s a surefire way to avoid ever being hurt or rejected.
Perhaps you were in a live-in or long-term relationship that ended, so you’re single again.
As a dating coach for women over 40, I know finding love the second time around (or even the first) is not easy.
Dating sites report that their fastest growing segment are people over 50. Online dating opens you up to a thousand more possibilities, and it’s a completely new way of meeting people. ) What things can you do to ensure your physical and emotional well-being as you talk to and meet people?
There are literally millions of men over 50 online. Make some decisions and set some personal guidelines about how you want to integrate it into your life. What can you learn or change to be a successful dater?
Considering some things up front, however, gives you a tentative roadmap and, more importantly, an expanded awareness.